10 Mar 2016


marvin saidi | 13:13 | |
First of all, i must start briefly with why men and women get together at all.sine the B.C , the main reason is to reproduce and fill the earth as the Lord requested. But that can be accomplished in a matter of minutes to some, or if you’re me, hours

But why we continue to hang out beyond the brief act of "reproduction" is the nature of every love relationship. Our fellow female ancestors of 100,000 BC years ago were prone to getting knocked up quick im very sure, with the lack of birth controls and condoms. I mean, they hadn’t even invented the ‘pulling out game’ yet. Men, conversely, needed to help women do all these things to ensure their offspring survived birth and beyond, ; and to tell them “No, I don’t think you look fat in that maternity bear skin.”
We all young lads, at some point and age fantasize about having a relationship or just any sexual experience with an older woman cause its an elixir for an older woman, but how exactly do you bring the cougar to your zipper door or heart?

No matter the age difference (me having almost 6 years! encounters with cougars ,milfs name whichever name you have for them), the energy that i used to infuses to there life on a daily—no, make that hourly—basis was the epitome of new-found bliss.

 Anyhow its not about me today so lets go straight ahead here are a few vital tips on the art of seducing and securing the attentions of a cougar/milf.

#1 Dress to impress. The average cougar has been around the block a few times. She’s seen more than you have probably, heard more and experienced more. That also means that she’s experienced a much wider range of social situations than you, and she knows how to dress for each and every one of them. Moreover, she extremely feels entirely comfortable doing so.
It is paramount, then, that you get your look, dress code right bruh! whenever you are in her presence.
Even worse, if a romantic connection has already been established, you could leave her feeling embarrassed in front of her peers–an end result that can, lead to a minty goodbye and a subsequent dismissal of your existence. Do your research, and try your best to be the man she knows she deserves. [Read: Hints to be the sexually appealing guy you’ve always wanted to be]

#2 Stick out your chin. come on Bruh! your still young, and that’s a major key part of the attraction for this older women. They like who you are–all that fresh,energy and youthful spirit–and don’t want you to pretend to be anything else.
Irrespective of age, there are certain traits that women need to see in the male objects of their affections. You could be 15 or 50, but she still wants you to be a confident alpha male with a robust set of opinions.
Being a wallflower, pussy ass ninja is not the way to a woman’s heart, and youthful indecision is more likely to turn her off than on. Be strong and show her that, despite your tender years, you know your own mind and are more than willing to share it.

#3 Know when to shut the fuck up. This specific caveat is almost the opposite of the previous hint, and counsels you to keep your mouth shut on certain occasion. That’s not to say that you shouldn’t air your opinion from time to time. Not at all. She actually does likes that.
What this point means is the importance of allowing free discussion on both sides. Some guys out here try to dominate the conversation and yap too much, but such a forceful and uninformed manner is unlikely to impress the independent and savvy older woman.
If you want to impress her, attempt conversation as a confident peer, but avoid commenting on subjects you know next to nothing of
#4 Avoid the obvious. Tho' she is an older woman and this rather age gap lies between you, that doesn’t mean that she wants to be constantly reminded of the Silly references to her being a MILF, cougar, or hot mom, this will not impress her, and will probably solicit the execution of a stingily swift slap across the jaw.
If you want to charm her, talk about her apparel, her wit, her beauty–not how many wrinkles she has on her neck! or her pot belly

#5 Definitely Compliment her. The mature woman is a lot smarter and keen-minded than the little air-heads, gold diggers of your own age group. But she isn’t so bitter and cynical that she doesn’t know how to appreciate the odd compliment.
as she passes through her middle years, she’s probably more receptive to her ever-dwindling supply of compliments than ever before. Make her glow with a few well-chosen words describing your appreciation for her, and watch her melt in your arms or whichever part of your body


#6 Avoid flattery. There’s a huge difference between paying a mere compliment and attempting flattery. The former is a genuine attempt to express your appreciation for someone’s physical or cognitive attributes, and the latter, a form of deceit.
Don’t forget you’re dealing with a cougar/milf, here. She’ll smell the BS in seconds and have you running for the hills, with your small dick tucked firmly between your legs, if you offer anything less than the whole truth. You’ve been warned! bruh!

#7 Keep fit/ Hit the Gym. Let’s be honest, here, one of the reasons you can get into cougar panties when your older counterparts have failed is your youthful vigor and physique. If you let yourself go and start getting a bit heavy around the edges, or short of breath at the briefest hint of a stiff walk, then you’re giving away your greatest weapon. If she wanted a conversation and a bill payer, she’d have stayed with her last boring  husband or older suitors with belly beers.

#8 Location, Bruh! location. There will come a point, you’re going to have to take her out on a date, which can be quite daunting, considering her experience in this field. Just remember: she’s no fluffy bunny, but a strong, confident woman who knows her own mind.
Take her to the kind of place a woman of her age deserves and expects–somewhere swish and impressive–and save the burger joints for the high school/university ratchets .

#9 Give her space. she very much has her own life, and this needs to be respected. That late teen/twenty-something puppy love routine has no place in the life of a mature and independent woman of the world. Throwing yourself upon her at every possible juncture will make her feel stifled and craving the presence of less-demanding company.


if i were you id take advantage of the few tips above to secure the cougar of your dreams. Who knows? It might just be a chronological mismatch made in heaven! and if you have some other pointers please feel free to share below and help other bedroom wankers out there

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